I told her they dont love you because they lack human thought to love. But hes gone a lot from his job and I have 5 kids and 2 dogs. Honestly, you do sound like one of those over-involved pet owners! Its just not working. My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 4 years and his mother was very sick with cancer during this time. Here are why your dog might poop inside the house. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. I have to tell him again and again because he just circles around. It seems like the overwhelming majority of people who are adversely affected by dogs seem to like dogs but believes they should be treated like animals rather than four-legged humans. He works on his own time and has more than enough time and energy to take care of her properly. We are talking about moving in together and everything else besides the dog is great, but Im thinking about not moving in with him because of the dog. In Peru, they smack them with a stick and then eat them. Neither dog has any health problems, though they make frequent trips to a very expensive vet who sells them expensive dry-food to mix in with the custom cooked meat dishes. I call her the furry wife and thats exactly what she has been. Sounds cruel, but Im willing to suffer for my bf. Your dog will be dead. I find myself dreading her coming home because I have to deal with them constantly meowing and demanding her attention, which she gladly gives them. And YESthe licking noises disgust and annoy me like crazy too. When I told my wife about it she told me to call them back to tell them that the dog is staying here (at home with three young children). As long as you can strike a fair balance that ensures your pets needs are met, consider giving your partner a pass on nightly pet duties. When my ex was abusing me hed try all sorts of tactics to get in my head and even attempted to kidnap my Siberian wolf. It shows empathy. The problem is mutual. Think about a puppy who bites you as a result of being a bit exceedingly excited. An infant is unable to comprehend parental love until their memory begins to prove around the age of 3. I do not like dogs, never will.. Needy pathetic, whiny, annoying little jerks. I recall another day where she told the dog I love you a total of 26 times, when our child and myself were in the same room, nothin. I have an African Grey and my sinned deceased husband had 2 blue & gold macaws. @BK. Well this is a problem for me seeing as how I love my dogs so much. and has a nasty, intimidating growl anytime another dog comes near those things. If my SO does not do something with the cat we are done! Help please! I think when someone treats animals badly they have no problem treating people badly as well. She says she doesnt resent my animals but actions and snide comments made say otherwise. Ive tried to love it, but the dog irritates me so much I hope those of you on here are able to come to some sort of resolution for your issues. Mulan never lets anyone know that she has to pee poop, she just goes if we dont take her out in time. Sometimes I can hear him waiting and listening to my partners footsteps. i have severe allergies and most importantly, i do not want them constantly running in the house and jumping on furniture. I would never actually follow through with that threat, but there will never be another animal in the house as long as I am living in it, and if she puts me in this situation ever again, we are done. Shes a DOG. How does one tell the Brother in law that this is happening? What you said is most certainly not a fact. I am a light sleeper and cannot sleep with snoring (she is a pug and snores quite loud), not to mention Ive never liked having a dog sleep in my room. It saddens me terribly to think of loosing my dog. Because my GF allows it now all people must suffer. Except hes getting attacked he will defend himself. Have faith that what you feel is correct. If the dog is bad and messes and just doesnt obey then you are selfish for thinking like that and he/she is much better off without you. I had ran inside to go grab a towel. I have had dogs and other animals my whole life. What a pity, though, that the guy is taking a big loss in loving an animal and loosing out on that beautiful relationship he could be having with a woman! But my dogs have never slept in my room. Omg, I hate that. We will be gating off portions of the home where she cannot enter because the hair and smell is just too plentiful. Then try baby gating her after that with lots of good chew toys and music on he radio versus crating. I cant even put the dog in a crate. Her dog came from a Romanian shelter and they wanted to kill her but she got saved. Then slowly move onto the dog bed by itself and reward him when he stays. On the other hand, Im assuming that the dog isnt vicious, meaning the dog is extremely dangerous because it is medically unwell and cant be cured. He eats what he tears up and throws it up so we have that mess to clean up too. (Hunting in their breeding and we cannot predict what a jr will do at all times in a human created abnormal (for them) environment. Its making me nuts and I am really starting to resent him and not want to be with him. He has rescued two cats and three dogs over the years. I wanted to leave so badly, but at the time had no job and nowhere to go. She has since then adjusted her sleeping habits and we have both been the happier. Get away from these animals as fast as possible. He constantly complains that it is in the way. As long as your partner isnt abusive toward animals, he or she doesnt have to let Fido lick him/her on the face or put up with Kittys constant scratching. And honestly, I do feel bad for these animals because I dont hold their behavior against them. The baby one irks me, i see dogs as dogs not as human equivalents, especially since i love children and weve (sisters/family) had miscarriages in our family so children are of high value (as they should be) in my eyes. More power to you girl! I was beginning to look at my husband quite differently and cry. Her ten year old is just the older Yorkie that is sick. They need to be given lots of credit. Shed bark, hed jump. ie, Sorry, I cant go out, I have to let my dog out. My bf hasnt traveled in 5 yrs, and barely leaves the house all due to his dog. my partner said it was his fault for not locking him up to me thats no excuse , i suggested a kennel but he wont have non of it . Those sorts of compromises just dont work long-term. Not loved his dog, he was in love with his dog. However, their dog is super annoying too. If you can ascertain the exact reason why your husband/boyfriend wants to rehome the dog, you might be able to persuasion him not to do so by resolving that particular issue. Dogs are animals they should not be sleeping In human beds. I just cant see that if your guy or girl likes animals that there is going to be some real animosity unless deep inside they really sont like animals at all. 2 months later my husband decides he wants another cat. Like I said, they are dog owners but they are sensible ones that never take their dog to a restaurant or shopping etc. for instance a rat terrier I knew would boss her human around by not obeying or listening to her humans half hearted commands. My partners huskies shed like mad, and if he didnt brush them every day there would be a carpet of dog hair everywhere. Dont hire dog walkers. I love my daughter, I hate her dog, Not everyone loves dogs and its no reason not to be together. If this is due to aging effects, he will give you sort of special pieces of advice. Its so dumb splitting for an animal. And btw, they never get brushed, nails clipped, no vaccinations, no anti flea treatments or whatever, and no showers. Instead we come out realizing that there are dog-obsessed freaks out there. Explain to him why the dog would be better off and that he has to think of his family first as well as the new baby especially! Which is why it is so incredibly important that you treat your partner with the love and respect that they deserve. i can understand not wanting the dog in bed. My bf and his dog sleep together in theirs. But this is sucking the joy out of my life. I still love my husband and know after his furry lover dies, no other dog will be brought into our home or the animal will be granted human status. Besides my allergies, Ive always thought dogs were kinda stupid and boring and burdensome . If you still cannot someone, its better to interview several people and give the dog to someone you totally believe and feel comfortable with. If the dog lays on the bed, remove the separation anxiety and start taking the steps to end the problem for the sake of your relationship. Your SO really needs to put your needs first and either give the cat away to a good home or put it out as you mentioned. You have to find conpromise. Any helpful advice please? Theres so much more to this. No longer walking with anxiety over the man-dog/wife relationship. His dog has ripped up a very nice carpet I bought with my own money, he has ripped up baby clothes and my own clothes before. I finish feeding the baby, my husband gets up as I am burping him, and goes into the section of the house where the dog is confined to. I dont want the responsibility of training the animals and feel no affection for them though I tolerate them and do want to make sure they are fed and not neglected. Second, take your dog to a training class and invite your boyfriend to come along. Of course, no problem. I have been online searching and begging him to find a resolve, but he hasnt tried. Dogs are not kids, gah that makes me want to vomit. I can say this with experience. Getting the cat was the best thing I did for my mental health during six years here on and off jobs. The dog is extremely destructive, and it chews almost everything in the house. Or move out. After i gave them up i immediatly started having resentment towards my fiances dog. So this is not exactly regarding to your comment, but towards mainly the women with dogs having these issues in their relationship. I also told him that we are never close like we used to be, that instead of reaching for me, you reach for the dog. Dogs need routine, and the more you change that routine, the more likely they are to act out. If you argue like that before marriage, it will get much worse! If you are prioritizing the dog over your husband/boyfriend, you should get over yourself. Dogs/cats do not have the propensity to fill the void of another human being. I told my mom how I disrespected him over his interactions with his pet. Dog owners know this. It shows she not only has any idea how pets work, but what is really helpful for someone who is depressed. Dog is his bbf, his baby. I need only to say No and she stops. It made me realize that we will never be able to have another dog in the picture, which is terrible because I had been thinking about getting my own dog for a while now. His dog has been an issue since day one. My boyfriend does not like it and Ive compromised with him and Ive quit allowing my dog on the furniture. The problem isnt your dog its how you treat it. I was raised around dogs, cats, birds, turtles, and fish. Sometimes I think Americans have went insane. Be there to listen and learn, not to pressure your daughter into doing what you want. Some of these comments are down right selfish and show a complete lack of understanding of relationships. I wonder if its possible to have a healthy relationship with a Dog Nut, as they will always place their pet as #1. Kick her and the dog out. im seriously thinking of leaving him he just doesnt take me seriously ,the dog even weed on my little doggy while she was having a poo he run over to her and cocked his leg all my parnter did said she must have got in his way ha ha pathetic excuse , he always has piss on his front legs and i wash them but my partner just lets him straight into the house without even checking god i hate this dog. They feel like the animal has always been there for them. And yes my partner is obsessed with his dog, what he eats, he cant havw treats, B12 and other injections have to be given to him, other medications, etc. [Reasons + Do This], Can Dogs Eat Strawberry Ice Cream? I want it to work. A couple days ago, I sadly ended the relationship after two years of this torture. So occasionally he has/had an accident. But, think about this a little bit Your dog cannot take care of you when you are sick. I am worried about bringing our children into a stinky, messy, hairy home. Make sure you use a metal gate. Now my girlfriend has always had her dog sleep next to her since years.So when we look at the prospect of the two of us moving in this is a major thing.We have been talking about it for over a month and there seems to be a deadlock.She doesnt want to give up on the dog in bed and I cannot cannot take it.Please help. My current girlfriend is pushing for us to live together, she has a parrot and two dogs. Sure they make great companions, but they also require boundaries in the home and animals will always be just that, regardless to how some people try to anthropomorphisize them. I told my bf that I dont want the dog in the bed with us. Besides her annoying habits such as constantly licking the floor, and herself, scratching any closed doors whenever she feels like it, etc, she was allowed by my husband to sleep in bed with us, even during my pregnancy while the smell of her would make me sick. Recently moved to Oklahoma and theyve had to become outside dogs. Ultimately, his dogs comfort has proven to be worth more than mine! My fianc and I have been together for 8 years and engaged for 4 and a half of those 8 years. Animals just dont cut it. Well that lasts for about a minute as well. Today had an argument with my husband about his dog. My family hates all of my pets. Its to the point I have to watch him with everything he does. Good dog! Then again its how you treat the dog, the dog learns from its owner. Not today. And I already let me hubby to be know that! He is low key and causes no trouble in the relationship. I denied the idea multiple times just for that reason!! i know it wont be easy since you two have a kid on the way, but the safety of your children, not to mention your sanity and peace of mind, are way more important. He wouldnt give me ANY attention. The narcissist thinks that getting rid of your pet means your attention will now solely be on them. I have so was so hurt and mad at what she said to one of my friends. I just found out mine was paying about 7.50/kg for food thats available through Amazon for 4.75. We tolerate to much. The problem is that we live on the noisiest corner of our city because of the traffic and it can get a little stressful. Of course, an animal cannot hurt you emotionally. And worst of all take time away from our relationship. If you too have ended a relationship because your partner didn't love your pets, you're not alone. Your husband is fighting you on getting a dog because of a deeper issue. Spoiled animal who is neither trained nor socialized. One time she pooped on my daughters bed near her pillow. My boyfriend and I have started living together. So I caved. I am the one who has to primarily take care of her because he works a lot, and she will NOT listen to me at all. My bf told me soooo many times that he was trying to find a home for his dog & that once we bought a house the dog was not moving in no matter what. I adore my lady. There are so many people in the world who actually LIKE dogs, it is pointless to waste time on ones who dont. When the dog is not around, (because his dad will take the dog to camp with him) everything is great, but when the dog comes back its terrible. Its not that I dont like animals, but I have no desire of them to be in my house and definitely not in my bed. If you are confident you can please do ahead and try but if he carries on,please believe me,you are better off without your partner full stop. Dont want any anymore however, too much hassle! I did agree to having the dog with us because I dont like to see any animal suffer as I am too a dog lover. He has arthritis really bad where you can see he is in discomfort and even when he drinks or eats, he cant stand up perfectly straight. It really does feel like Im both second string and maid. I dont believe it is actually the dogs fault, although Ive grown out of love with him and more into extreme dislike, one because Ive always been a bit allergic, he makes me itchy, and he smells like foot fungus the two get me frustrated and grossed out. He just puts the bulldog on a pedestal and it causes lots of issues and arguments. Hire a dog trainer: Since these people can solve the heavy barking issue within a short amount of time, I highly recommend doing so. Understand that each can be a part of your life if you wise up and stop ruining your dogs life by allowing it to expect to live as a human. But I stand by my word through thick or thin, and that was not something I was taught in my home. I find I get up in the morning and I am happy. But, everything depends on what we are referred to as a Bite.. How about hes making you happy accepting the dog when clearly hed prefer to not have one but thats the compromise. I was utterly devastated. I feel I dont have any place except in one our bathroom in our home, my husband now wants the min pin to sleep in our bed. My son is almost 4, he can hardly enjoy the dog because the dog is probably 10 years old and hasnt had a lot of interaction with children. He has to sleep in the bed too, and even though he isnt a big dog, hes clingy and hogs the bed. Wow this post has really made me feel like I am not alone anymore with this issue! worse the way he thinks or trys to lie that his behavior wasnt that bad, or shes just a dog and will get over it. What I dont get is why would anyone want dogs to sleep in their bed if they have a partner or are married? They should not be in bed with you they should not be on furniture they should not be allowed near small children. He even refers to her as his child. Its sucks to be 2nd fiddle to a pet. When I just arrived, he didnt want me to sleep with him because he didnt want to disturb the dogs, who slept in the bed every night! At home training, if that doesnt work the next step professional training. They need our attention just as well. My pup does chew but not on her things like she use to do. Sometimes I got short breathed because of all the dog hair that is flying through the air and I cant sleep because of all the movements on the bed and the noises. Lastly, they tried to give me the third degree when I said that we crate our dog when we have visitors. Because he does put the family and its safety first. It is so stressful juggling his feelings about the dog and me trying to keep loving my dog as normal as I can and trying to make her feel safe like she used to feel. I know he loves the dog and so do I. I have no idea what to do at this point. Says it all right there! So now I find that every time we watch a movie or do anything shes right there on the couch with him while Im the third wheel. this rat terriers was given a time out in a bedroom, closet or backyard when the barking started. people could not get near the human because her behavior got so possessive. This comprehensive guide contains 15 reasons why your husband/boyfriend wants to rehome the dog and 23 possible solutions. So I tell her she was very rude and selfish for leaving me with the dog and that I wasnt going to care for it and she needed to find someone who was going to. I cannot help I wasnt raised around pets or never really had but one as a child. My husband is very upset and thinks it is a stupid idea. To think she would choose this animal over me, that she does not care for, was pretty upsetting. Remember, the more that you can comfortably include your dog in your relationship, the happier you all will be. I have two Pitts, one I have had for 5 years, the other for 10 years. Why? I keep thinking how he has nipped at my son and how stupid I am for allowing it. Anyhow, now that he is older, this is our live: he walks up and down the halls at least 3x times per night between midnight and 6:00 am to be let out so we never get a real solid sleep. Run! I have two daughters, 13 & 11. She was way obsessed about them with a bulldog pillow, bulldog painting, bulldog mugs, bulldog statue, bulldog keychain, picture of her dead bulldog on her mantle along with his ashes, her company is named after her bulldog with its picture. The first months he really kept saying how he missed his dogs which always made me feel I dont matter. Get help from neighbors. She does not come, she does not stay, she makes it impossible to bring her in and out. I hate when the dog gets up because hair just flys off of her. Thank you Pip. Dog eats off his plate and will get on counter and lick frying pan or eat whatever i have thawing out. Also I agree with Michael that your dog not being socialized is an extremely bad thing. I know he would probably have a fit. There are no boundaries or discipline. We just found out Im 6 weeks pregnant and she is so rough, she head butts me and is always running over me, almost like shes trying to knock me over. :\ and the thought of our baby being born soon I dont want dog hair anywhere! for 4 years. I can certainly feel your pain. My cat (had before we met) is and indoor/outdoor cat. I understand the love for animals, but people should also be realistic and its not like I move into a place that he already has with the dogs and kick them out. I dont know. Yikes Alisa. I would die. but the human seemed to thrive on her thug style behavior. Sounds like you hadnt spent enough time at his place over those 7 years to see all the hair that accumulated? That is a different matter. As I feel she does not care for it properly and number 1, it is not my pet and when I started caring for the dog she completely quit and the dog was becoming my responsibility. Dog nuts just dont get it. Me and my wife got our dog after being married for about a year. I finally got her to agree to keep them out of our bedroom. Ive always had animals growing up, all indoor BC we couldnt bear to see harm come to any of them. We had an agreement that if the cat came inside during the morning hours, (my husband is usually gone from 1a-8a) he can sleep with me but once hes home and I get up, so is the cat to get up. Its similar to the theory of our subconscious playing out in our dreams and that its a sign of our innermost desires. I am 32, and this dog will probably live another 3-5 years. As for human loyalty. We are excited/terrified but both incredibly happy to be one parents. It wasnt worth the argument because theyll never get it. He sometimes travels for work and I dont want to deal with it, I cant even sleep at night because of those barking and noisy dogs and he doesnt care. Howdy Before when we werent living together, my partner would allow him on his bed, cuddle with him, he peed twice on the bed, and has a foot fungal smell to him (some bacteria in his skin he is taking antibiotics for) that made it smell of feet and death; this is all I had to endure prior to moving in together. My dog DOES sleep on my bed. Id personally prefer to not have the dog inside the house at all, but knew that he wouldnt like that solution. Unfortunately the media we expose ourselves to does not always promote reality. NO they are not like kids its not even remotely the same. The shelters are full of them. It didnt matter if it was a little one which we bought her or the big one we used for travel with our older dog. I dont even understand her attachment to this animal, unlike many of you have stated your partners are very affectionate with their pets. That dog passed and we lived pet-free for about a year. I dont dislike pets but they have their own place-my bed is not that! I remember one time telling the dog to get off the couch to go get a treat from him in the kitchen, and his reply was She doesnt have to shes the queen! How much would you resent your husband if you did so? All I get from your lengthy comment is that no, you dont need a dog and neither a SO in your life. He barks a lot, steals my toddlers food, gets into the garbage, growls at night at every sound, jumps on people, sheds constantly, growls at you and nips if you try to punish him, and hes just a bad dog. Compromise. But I cant handle this. Eight days after moving in, and without consent, she brought a Siberian Husky puppy in and this dog is still not trained. 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